Wednesday, 29 April 2009

How we make our lives complex?

Life has to be simple and smooth but in reality it is not simple. When we say simple and beautiful I always imagine of life in cartoon stories like Cindrella, Wonder land etc etc. What ever may be the hardships, in the end it is the truth and good that wins. And it is not so with only our chidhood stories but also in reality.
Actually truth has got this power to make our life simple, straight and beautiful. Despite knowing this we are actually taken away by our fears that make us to lie for temporary solutions we put ourselves in web that keeps on building round and around and ultimately we get entangled and life becomes hard and complex. It becomes our habbit to lie about everything and initially it may make us feel that it is so easy to avoid the circumstances we don't like but as I said it is the web and it is very very meshy. It is not only the big lies but even the small lies, like we make excuses for our behaviour, like to avoid the anger or confrontations with our parents, friends, loved ones, we go on telling them weaved stories. Sometime we do not want to show our emotions and here again we lie and this go on and on. But the weaved stories are never the part of reality and finally they show up, and hence no escape. And then when we say, "why me?" we should understand that is what we created and that is what get. Life makes no excuses when it returns you back it simply does how it is feeded. So it is upto you what you want your life to be. You want it simple treat it with, truthfulness, love, respect, responsibility, you will get the same in return. When things are not clear it means that somewhere you are hiding something and this is not only something that you hide from others but sometimes we hide things from ourselves also. So the only solution is to get clear and say, it is as simple as that. But people who believe in their strengths and respect their views and others and are brave and are honest and truthful are clear in their minds. Confusions are the result of deceiving mind. Honesty is not only a virtue but it is the way of beautiful life. It takes away all the fears from life, since truth knows no fear. Remember all simple things are great and great things simple.
So live life simple and beautiful. Celebrate each moment and cherish each dream, this all is for you only.

5 comments:

deeps said...

if we could do everything just as we planned it
and life went on with all the mathamatical precsision ...
ohh God... even love will lose its magic! na?
i guess so!

as you say, celebrate every moment and thats it

vishawjyoti said...

Hey Deep, I never mentioned any planning over here and if you are suggesting that planning will ruin the magic of life or love then I am also against rigid planning. Plans are made to follow your goals, and plans can change with time ....... what is important is the feeling of self and selfless efforts to follow your goals.....

Mad Blogger said...

I believe in one thing - life is only as complex as how we want it to be.. If we want life to be an uncomplicated one, it will be an uncomplicated one. End of the day what matters is how we look at it...

deeps said...

ohh no.. not about plans .. i mean the life lived as if it is all planned!

like lying can become a habit
loving can also ..ha? and that will be wonderful ...

vishaw vashisht said...

Ya that is great, if like lying, loving becomes habbit then really world will be wonderful... ofcourse


and mad blogger, congratulations for your new life to be starting soon... I visited your blog and thus came to know....
You are right that it is the frame of reference that matters...